Life is such a mystery at times, things happen you don't know why they don't make sense at the time, but your decision in a matter may be final, sometimes there is no going back.
Everyday we make decisions, normally minor ones like what are we going to be having for tea, what happens when major decisions come along, you notice how many people say something on the spur of the moment then regret it, does that make sense to not think before you comment ? I suppose its so easy just to say what you think, but thats such a bad decision when what you say may have the effect of finality (ie no way to change it)
How about when someone says 'I love you' should you say it back and mean it or say it back as an automated response ? Many people just say it as a response never really with feeling.
How about when you decide to leave something, be it a job or something else, how easy is it just to say, i've had enough I'm off, the problem with that often you don't think about things and its then too late to change your mind.
I was chatting to someone to day and I noticed something, that I'm sure I've mentioned before lol its about how so many people always look at the bad things in something, never the good things, every situation can be turned into a good one, so why do people love hating things, love seeing things as bad ? I've never understood that, I will probably die never understanding that.
Always remember there is a good thing in every situation, you may have to look hard for it, but its always there, so when ever you are feeling down don't think about what's making you feel down think of whats good about the situation.
Never make a decision thats final until you are sure, if you are never going to be certain about something admit it to yourself and admit it to others involved.
Happiness has many forms and can come when you least expect it, if you never look for it, it will hit you, thats when you find true happiness, don't be scared, embrace the happiness, make it meaningfull, make it part of you.
Everyday we make decisions, normally minor ones like what are we going to be having for tea, what happens when major decisions come along, you notice how many people say something on the spur of the moment then regret it, does that make sense to not think before you comment ? I suppose its so easy just to say what you think, but thats such a bad decision when what you say may have the effect of finality (ie no way to change it)
How about when someone says 'I love you' should you say it back and mean it or say it back as an automated response ? Many people just say it as a response never really with feeling.
How about when you decide to leave something, be it a job or something else, how easy is it just to say, i've had enough I'm off, the problem with that often you don't think about things and its then too late to change your mind.
I was chatting to someone to day and I noticed something, that I'm sure I've mentioned before lol its about how so many people always look at the bad things in something, never the good things, every situation can be turned into a good one, so why do people love hating things, love seeing things as bad ? I've never understood that, I will probably die never understanding that.
Always remember there is a good thing in every situation, you may have to look hard for it, but its always there, so when ever you are feeling down don't think about what's making you feel down think of whats good about the situation.
Never make a decision thats final until you are sure, if you are never going to be certain about something admit it to yourself and admit it to others involved.
Happiness has many forms and can come when you least expect it, if you never look for it, it will hit you, thats when you find true happiness, don't be scared, embrace the happiness, make it meaningfull, make it part of you.
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